Applause erupted as our daughter stood to receive her third award of the evening. She beamed with excitement while walking on stage. I listened to the praise of both her teachers and peers. My heart swelled with joy. Their words confirmed what I already knew—she’s an incredible kid.

At the same time, I ached for her brother, who received no awards that night. He’s an amazing kid, too. He did well in his classes, and his kind, fun-loving personality won him many friends. Still, he took home no awards.

Oh, the depth of conflicting emotions a parent’s heart can hold in the same moment.

On the way home, our son commented, “I wonder why I didn’t get any awards.” I turned in the front passenger seat and looked at him with compassion. I’ve experienced these gut-wrenching feelings before, too. I know what it’s like to anticipate affirmation and come away disappointed. I know how hard it is to celebrate with a friend while trying to mask my own pain.

How can we help our kids deal with rejection?

For 6 ideas on preparing them for both disappointment and success, hop over to Crosswalk:

https://www.crosswalk.com/family/parenting/how-to-help-your-child-deal-with-rejection.html

Join Me!

 

 

If you're tired of living the try-harder life, you're in good company here.

 

Subscribe for email devotions reflecting on God's multifaceted heart. Together, we'll ponder his beauty and find rest in the God who is for us.

 

You'll also gain access to my freebie library -- a growing collection of resources designed to help you flourish.

I'm In!

Success! I'm so glad you're here! Your Welcome email is on its way. (If you don't see it, please check your spam folder. Please consider adding me to your address book to make sure your emails land in the correct inbox.)

 

Your privacy is important. I will never sell your info or spam your inbox.